Mid fifties and looking to explore sexual interests that I have wondered about for 40 years. I figure that if I don't do it now, the opportunity will pass forever! In general I am a loving, friendly sort that is inherently gentle. I yearn to absorb the sexual energy of the moment through long wondering caresses of the body, slow methodical oral stimulation of my partner to include rimming, digital and anything else that does not involve pain that brings my partner pleasure. Unless there is a request for more. Perally, I am an educated (post grad) professional in a stable career. Studied at Harvard and other Ivy league institutions. I have traveled extensively abroad and in particular the third world. I have likely been to places you have only read about or not heard of at all! For a first encounter, I would think that meeting for a drink and social conversation without pre conceived notions of going any further would be the way to go. If something develops .....great....but nothing ventured, nothing gained!B)B)B)B)B)

My Ideal Person Similarly adventuresome and uninhibited. Educated and interested in world affairs and current events. Someone that does not take themselves too seriously and appreciates efforts to reach out in this forum and recognizes that this is just a starting place and not a commitment to go further.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Let's talk about it. Fantasy varies with the person......

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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