I find these so hard to write. Firstly, I am married and I am not looking to change things on that front. However, my wife is older than me and we no longer have sex. So, I am not looking for my next soul mate or a serious relationship. I am here for casual meets or regular affairs. How would I describe myself. I am what you can call balanced (if there is such a thing), intelligent and practical. My job is my serious part of me, I have to be. Outside of that I don't take myself that seriously. I am caring and want people to be happy. I can be chatty or quite, laughing or serious, being the centre of attention or needing a cuddle. If we were to meet, you would see that I am brown/greying hair, brown eyes, kinda average size and average height. I am pretty active but know I could do more. I like silly stuff like Monty Python and The Play Goes Wrong. I don't like programmes like Love at First Sight or Love Island, they are just full of 'want to be's'. Musically, I have a varied range of music from classical, Ska/two tone, to thrash metal

My Ideal Person So, what will my ideal person be like? Discretion is vital. Someone that I can have a laugh and a chat to but also wants to have some fun.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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