PLEASE READ ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE SENDING ANY MESSAGES Single.....No BS Vet Still reside live in Chicago......hopefully that won't discourage anyone from at least looking at my profile and sending a message. First: I am a U.S. service member that is required to move around every few years yet I still do live in Chicago and get back there regularly. Not ideal but not impossible to actually meet someone either. I'm not saying this to get extra attention, just being honest up front and keeping it real. Second: Not sure if I want to verify the pictures because of what I do, but that is me. The same thing about confirming, just because there isn't a check mark on my page it doesn't mean I'm not real or those pictures aren't of me. Then again because of my profession I may leave it as is, so please respect my decision and don't judge. Anyone who has served or is serving and/or just respects others privacy to not expose EVERYTHING ONLINE TO STRANGERS should be able to relate. If anyone really feels they need or wants new or more revealing pictures just ask and they can be arranged by email, or if it gets to that level then by phone and texts. The pictures that are up are of me, no BS. And as far as "camming" goes, not on here but I have so if anyone who's really interested and wants to actually see me and interact visually instead of exchanging messages then it can be arranged at IcDan56. I also have IvanDaniels76. Basically just ask. Third: If anyone is truly interested in me and since I'm a sometimes paying member then you have to send me a message first when I'm just a standard member. I've put myself out there before and have learned from that if I get contacted first then it's probably for real and they're interested. Fourth: I AM STRAIGHT......here for the ladies only, no if's, and's, or buts about that......including compromises and assumptions.....pretty simple right? Fifth: I'm not fearful about meeting a couple, but if I'm not home in Illinois when you send the "invite" out, obviously I can't meet you. Overall, sending an invitation to come and get together without even exchanging messages to find out about the recipient and others involved, especially at the last minute as if I can drop whatever I had planned to meet total strangers and then when I respond and state that I can't because I'm not available but I'm labeled fake or scared is somewhat suspect on your part.......think about it. ADDITIONAL NOTE(S) FROM OBSERVATIONS: - I do appreciate the "views", flirts, and hotlists, however as I stated most of the time I can't send any messages first, so if you really want to communicate then you have to send an email first then I can reply, then we can take it from there, basically exchange a few messages first and then decide if I'm worth it to continue conversating and vice versa. - I am STRAIGHT/NOT GAY - had to state this again, (always have been, always will be) so please no secrets or surprises, you know who you are. Don't disrespect me and try to persuade or assume I'm bi curious or similar or think that one time won't hurt or that I'm another one of those straight men who "indulges" in same sex activity.......no. If that is what some of you desire that's fine, I'm not judging or hating but I'm not that man, pursue your interests with some else who is a better fit for you. - Currently all I can do is just view or "look", and looking doesn't hurt, right? Now that that is out of the way ......... Hello everybody , 42 and yet youthful biracial appearing single black male, about 5'10 "178 , nicely " packed " humble, slightly athletic, can be nerdy/geeky at times, intelligent, respectful, confident, with a "different" (nothing offensive though) and unusual (quirky) sense of humor. I guess I'm just checking around, but I would like to conversate, chat if you will, and possibly meet other like minded individuals for fun and perhaps more if the connection exists. I realize what this site is for, as well as realize my chances of meeting someone or even a group so I'm being realistic but hoping for the best at the same time. One thing that I can state immediately is that I'm not like most of the men on here looking for hook ups or down low relationships, I do have substance and character, rare right?. To me, I want to get to know the per, friends more than anything else, then if you feel comfortable with me, on to the next level. I'm a good listener and I'm trustworthy. If you want to be discrete, cool...... no problem, or a continuous casual relationship, in other I'm versatile. I know how that makes me sound, however, I do respect limitations and won't go there if you don't want to take it there, yet I expect the same. More to come later. Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. We are only members of AFF.

My Ideal Person I could be wrong but I do not think this site is meant for finding someone perfect, or at least "ideal" since about 60%, probably more, of the pictures and profiles are false and misleading (anyone who looks at my profile and actually reads this line should agree with me). However it is possible to find someone who is similar to the person doing the searching. With that being said, I'm down for meeting women for friendship and casual fun. I look for the inner beauty, so I'm not that shallow, but I do have a thing for busty women, the bigger the better, bigger meaning breast size. I prefer someone who really wants to get to know me even if it is just for a casual hook up (at a minimum) because you still have to get to know the person before you decide to meet them and have sex with them right? She should be intelligent but not demeaning, fun, wild in bed (to a point) honest, laid back/chill, practice good hygiene, and respectful. Race is unimportant to me, I'm open to all. If your dating someone cool, just let me know. So basically .......... think about what you REALLY want and why your REALLY on this site, be honest with yourself, and last but not least non-judgemental. If the woman is in a relationship (couples) that's cool as well just as long as her man is straight, since I'm 100% straight. I would not mind groups either, depending on the activity.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
No particular one

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
There's so many to name.......

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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