[COLOR silver]Updated 12/11/23[/COLOR] I am a grounded, kind, caring person. An authentic communicator, I am not a fan of pretenses. All the pics here are current (within 2 years). I am real, so I have a life and schedules. please be the same and bring presence, honesty, respect and eager consent! [COLOR blue] When it comes to sex its all about caring honest communication, patience and acceptance, and unbridled enthusiasm! Oh, and abundance: I like to explore and please abundantly! I enjoy using my hands and mouth, so I enjoy kissing and licking and taking the time to do it properly. I have an abundant libido that needs to be put to good use! [/COLOR][COLOR royalblue] I consider myself a Demi-sexual/ Sapiosexual For me that means I need connection and well communicated boundaries before passions can fully erupt. That doesn't mean hook-ups are out, just more of an exception. I like sexy and erotica. Naked is nice, but clothes can be really fun. Light bondage and exploration always welcome. I am not much of a performer or tool/ slave, but I am a good toy for sexy play in many different settings. My wife says I am a solid 8 inches and average girth when normally aroused. But i go right up to thick if i get aroused enough. At least that's what she says. I adapt easily and am especially good with couples and groups. I can take on many roles, enjoying variety in play. One on one, I tend to be intensely intimate, seeking more sensually entwined experiences, with longer play, ending in more athletic raucous play. Terms like compersion, heteroflexible, and pansexual all fit in my world. I strongly prefer hetero, with team efforts usually being fun, and am open to in the moment experiences. I do like naked people and have few if any phobias, hang ups or judgements about mine or others bodies. Currently I am involved in a lovely ENM (ethical non-monogamous) LTR relationship with a beautiful person I met here on this site! What a wonderous thing to find someone so aligned with ones own scruples, values and beliefs! Being loving partners, we still like to have sex with other people often. We enjoy the newness and differences that these experiences bring to our relationship. We enjoy being intimate, sexual, and loving with others while being in love with each other. For us intimacy and sex with others is an extension of us, best experienced together! We each enjoy having personal lovers, shared lovers and co-mingling with couples. We are looking for fun, play, and intimacy free from drama and intricacy. We seek those who also align with us and are interested in expanding friendship circles. [/COLOR] I am also an outdoorsman, artisan, craftsman, foodie, music lover, and spiritual explorer. I'm a bit of a geek and enjoy science and tech. A daily learner, I like new adventures of all types. I like to cook large meals and bring people together around food. I love cultures and languages. Not much of a gamer or TV watcher, I'd rather be doing something. Listening to music plays a big role in my life. Like most things in my life, I like smart, witty, funny and silly.

My Ideal Person Looking for several things to add to my life:

-- One-on-one friend(s) to engage in adult fun encounters. Whether it be in the bedroom, car, woods, or whereever, we are both there to have adult intimacy without intricacy. Otherwise known as NSA FWB. This would not require any contact with my partner.

-- One-on-one friend(s) to engage in other activities like the outdoors, movies, restaurants, etc.
We would be more an open boy/girlfriend, aligning our activities in and out of the bedroom.
We may seek others to join, or keep it private. There are many levels to this intimacy and I prefer to move fluidly between them amongst a close friend group. This would require at least a meet and greet with my partner, and preferably more.

-- Couples or groups I can be open and athletic with as we explore adult intimacy with passion and fun.
People who like to come together and hangout around food and drinks to create a safe environment to explore well communicated adult fun adventures.
Being please first, get pleasure latter, I am a good toy to play with. I prefer long burns with eroticism and play.
As a performer or bull, I need to feel comfortable with boundaries, so usually a few slower encounters first can build up to that.


My new friends have a smile they share frequently in kind and caring ways.
They are compassionate, curious, and interested in others' wellbeing.
They enjoy nature, laughter, fun, food, and family and friends.
They share their sexuality in communicated. open, grounded, caring and authentic ways.


If I've reached out, and you think I am not a good fit for your situation, please be kind and send me a note to let me know I missed and won't waste anyone's time. Thank you.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
later.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, I am open trying most things at least once :)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Open and honest exploration with lots of communication

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nah, why?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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