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Damn nice
Posted:Jun 9, 2022 7:55 am
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Great photo of a great subject...
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6/9 Joke of the day
Posted:Jun 9, 2022 7:53 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2022 7:54 am
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This is no doubt true
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Woman on Woman
Posted:Jun 5, 2022 9:42 am
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Love to watch carpet munchers
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Tips On Over-cumming’ Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle
Posted:May 24, 2022 10:08 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2022 10:10 am
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It’s not unnatural for people to have anxiety about certain aspects of sex, their own body, or even their partner from time to time. However, feeling a bit nervous about initial encounters can be prevalent in the swinger's lifestyle.

Performance anxiety can prevent our bodies from responding in the way we hope when it comes down to playtime sessions and staying aroused—or getting there—may become challenging.

Singles and couples should consider the following to fully overcome lifestyle insecurities and boost confidence at lifestyle parties or with new partners in private settings.

Bypass Sexual Insecurities
One or two not-so-great experiences may be signs of sexual fears and barriers that impede having the best time possible. However, these methods and practices can boost esteem and make you a standout at lifestyle clubs and other personal interactions when swinging.

Do a Little Research

Are you dry, suffering from erectile dysfunction, or having trouble peaking in bed? A little online research can help you dive into the causes of these issues, as can consulting with a medical provider who can help discover if there’s a physical source of the problem.

Build Confidence

Grow self-esteem through self-talk and don’t hesitate to reach out to your primary partner about these concerns. Their understanding can be very reassuring. Consider including more physical exercise in daily activities which can boost libido, and body confidence and increase longevity.

Swingers

Try Soft Swapping During Swingers Playtime

Sometimes the pressure of feeling the need for a full swap can result in anxiety, especially for newer exchanges. Sometimes, easing into the scene with a soft swap with one new partner at a time can be comforting, as these don’t necessarily require an erection or a performance. It can involve touching, kissing, caressing, and massaging rather than full-on sex.

Employ a Few Toys

Toys are commonplace at many lifestyle parties, as they can help everyone get into the mood. Why not bring them into your everyday life or swing partnerships for a bit of a morale booster? Should you not be in the mood, a good selection of toys can save the experience, ensuring a good time is had by all.

Take Care of Yourself First

If getting going is a struggle, you can head to the bathroom to get a rev in your step with a bit of masturbation, deep breathing, or visual work. Some enjoy masturbating in front of partners, but others might find privacy more reassuring. If staying hard longer is a concern, get yourself off first to increase stamina for the real deal.

Divide and Conquer

If performance anxiety is associated with performing in front of a current partner or strangers in lifestyle clubs, head to a separate room with the swinger's playmates. This means you aren’t being analyzed, nor is your lovemaking style, so dividing it up can benefit certain situations.

Remember, our bodies are often unpredictable and may not always do what we want when we want. Try these helpful tips for easing sexual performance anxiety and finding more pleasure ultimately in the swinger's lifestyle and in your everyday relationship.
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Wowzers...what a set...5/23
Posted:May 23, 2022 9:22 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2022 9:25 am
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Wholy Shitzkey
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Blow Job fun
Posted:May 21, 2022 8:42 am
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Just love swinging tits...
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Love meeting new swinger friends
Posted:May 17, 2022 8:49 am
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Roger and S really hot couple...

Yoncalla, OR
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5/13 Pubic clean up...
Posted:May 13, 2022 9:47 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2022 9:48 am
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While I prefer hair down there, I do love to help a woman shave her pussy
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5/10 Spread Pussy
Posted:May 10, 2022 9:39 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2022 9:40 am
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I am not sure why they have to spread their pussy like that...we all should know by now what the inside of a pussy looks like...
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5/8 Hairy is scary
Posted:May 8, 2022 10:47 am
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2022 9:29 am
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In the jungle, the hairy jungle
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Oh Momma
Posted:May 6, 2022 7:10 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2022 7:11 pm
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WOW
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5/5 Love my women a little on the chunky side
Posted:May 5, 2022 8:10 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2022 8:11 am
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Those of you know what I mean...
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4/27 About right
Posted:Apr 27, 2022 8:59 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2022 9:00 am
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Never fails...CRAMP...
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