I'm a good person to mess around with if you're a beginner with some curiosity. I'm not here to pass judgement; rather, I want to help you and make your time with me enjoyable. Another possibility is that you and your girlfriend have not yet reached a comfort level where you feel ready to discuss such issues. On the other hand, perhaps you're just looking to hone your skills. Or maybe you want to explore that dark fantasy that has been dormant for too long. Intimate fantasies can be explored safely in my company.